In the issue of No. 1045 (Dec. 3-9, 2007), Business Weekly has this report, "They are the oldest children of families for the following statistics: 43% of American entrepreneurial leaders, 91% of the first group of NASA astronauts, 53% of American Presidents, 75% of cross strait leaders, and 40% of Nobel prize winners." This report may mislead you to infer that the oldest children of families can have the better chance to be somebody. However, the inferred argument can be totally different if you see those statistics from the other way around. For example, 57% of American entrepreneurial leaders and 60% of Nobel prize winners are not the oldest children in their families. It seems to say implicitly that the oldest might be inferior to the younger ones. Again, this is misleading as well. Unless we provide each of family rank with its statistical values of investigated categories, we may jump into ambiguous conclusion. Nonetheless, I tend to buy the conclusion that the oldest one can have the better chance to be a VIP, based on the above data, which are close to or larger than 50%. Usually, the oldest are more disciplined, more responsible and more hardworking. These personalities are important factors to be successful in the job marketplace.
Sometimes, serving well the role of being the eldest in a family can be hard; there's psychological complex to be addressed there. In Luke 15 of the Bible, there's a story of the lost son (NLT version). A father had two sons. One day, the younger son came to his father and said, "I want my share of your estate now, instead of waiting until you die." What would you do if you are this father? This may be our common response, "what a son!" Well, the story went on like this: his father agreed to divide his wealth between his two sons. Make long story short. After several months, this younger son run out of all his money and was dying of hunger in the city. And he decided to go home and ask for his father's forgiveness. To his surprise, his father welcome him home with the finest robe put on him, a ring for his finger, and sandals for his feet. In addition, a great feast was prepared for celebration of his safe return. What do you think the older son would respond to this? He was angry and wouldn't go into the house as he returned home from the fields working. His father came out and begged him, but he replied, "All these years I've worked hard for you and never once refused to do a single thing you told me to. And in all that time you never gave me even one young goat for a feast with my friends. Yet when this son of yours comes back after squandering your money on prostitutes, you celebrate by killing the finest calf we have." All long hidden grievances gushed out of this older son's heart. To this, here came father's reply, "Hey, Sony! you and I are close, and all I have is yours. we had to celebrate this happy day because your brother was dead and has come back to life! He was lost, but now he is found!" Well, what can you say about this? He is the Father!
There's more about this. Jacob and Esau were brothers to each other, Esau the older son of Isaac and Jacob the younger one. Before they were born, Isaac pleaded with the LORD to give Rebekah his wife a child because she was childless. So, the LORD answered Isaac's prayer, and his wife became pregnant with twins. But the two children struggled with each other in her womb. So she went to ask the LORD about it. "Why is this happening to me?" she asked. And the LORD told her, "The sons in your womb will become two rival nations. One nation will be stronger than the other; the descendants of your older son will serve the descendants of your younger son." See, they were so destined, and the older will serve the younger. What can you say about this? He is the LORD.
Another one is this. Jacob got 12 sons. Joseph was the younger one among them. Yet, one night Joseph had a dream and promptly reported the details to his brothers like this, "We were out in the field tying up bundles of grain. My bundle stood up, and then your bundles all gathered around and bowed low before it!" His brother taunted Joseph with this, "So you are going to be our king, are you?" This dreamer had another dream, "The sun, moon, and eleven stars bowed before me!" His father rebuked him by this, "Will your mother, your brothers, and I actually come and bow before you?" Because of these two dreams, Joseph was sold by his brothers to the place of Egypt. If we go through the whole Genesis, Jacob's family history run just exactly what Joseph had dreamed. It is God, who had brought the younger Joseph to Egypt and promoted him to the high position, next to the Pharaoh, so he could save the lives of many people, including his father and his brothers. What can you say about this? He is the God who led the path of human history at his sovereign will.
Here is the last part related to the struggle between the older and the younger brother. Jacob became quite old and he was half blind because of his age and could hardly see. One day, Joseph came to ask for his father Jacob's blessing on his two boys, the older Manasseh and the younger Ephraim. Joseph positioned the boys so Ephraim was at Jacob's left hand and Manasseh was at his right hand. I suppose that the older should be blessed by the right hand and the younger by the left hand. But what upset Joseph was that Jacob crossed his arms as he reached out to lay his hands on his two grandsons' heads. So, his right hand was on the head of Ephraim, the younger boy, and his left hand was on the head of Manasseh, the older. Joseph did try to lift the right hand of his father to place it on Manasseh's head, and said to his father, "No, Fatehr, this one over here is older. Put your right hand on his head." But his father refused. "I know what I'm doing, Sony," he said. "Manasseh, too, will become a great people, but his younger brother will become even greater. His descendants will become a multitude of nations!" So, in this way, Jacob put Ephraim the younger ahead of Manasseh the older. What can you say about this? He is the Father!
It looks to me that the younger brother can outperform the older brother because of the mercy and favor of the Father.